When a long marriage ends, the process you choose shapes everything—your finances, your relationships with adult children, your home, and your peace of mind. Yet most people enter divorce without understanding the fundamental differences between working with a solicitor, a mediator, or a collaborative law team. This book is written for those in their fifties, sixties, and beyond who want to make an informed choice, not a pressured one. It explains what each approach actually involves, who it suits best, and the practical consequences for pensions, property, and long-term security. You will learn how to recognise warning signs of conflict, when a cooperative process may fail, and what questions to ask before you sign a retainer. There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but there is a right fit for your situation. This guide gives you the clarity to find it—without the legal jargon, and without taking sides. Part of The Later-Life Divorce Library.