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Description & Overview
Two homes, one kid's week, and a hundred small logistics that fall through the cracks between them. That's the real daily challenge of co-parenting — not the big custody decisions, but the Tuesday practice that runs late, the retainer at the wrong house, the school email only one parent saw.
The Handoff skips the therapy-speak and legal jargon and gets straight to the machinery: a weekly planning ritual that catches problems before they start, a shared calendar that works even if your co-parent won't touch an app, a system for tracking shared expenses without a single argument, and a message format that gets a useful answer instead of a fight.
Built for real two-home families — amicable, strained, or somewhere in between — this is a practical operating system, not a set of vague values to reinvent every week under pressure. No specific apps to download, no assumptions about a cooperative ex, just structures that protect your household regardless of what the other one does with theirs.
If you're tired of every ordinary week becoming a small negotiation, this book hands you the infrastructure to make it stop. Pick it up, build the first piece this Sunday, and watch an ordinary week become genuinely ordinary again.