What if the greatest way to fight for your marriage is to surrender it?

Loving Your Husband Toward God is a 21-day devotional for the Warrior Wife who desires to see her husband become everything God has called him to be, while learning that transformation does not come through control, pressure, or striving.

A Warrior Wife does not fight her husband. She fights for him from a place of surrender. Whether married or preparing for marriage, Tembi Gray invites women through Scripture, personal reflection, prayer, and practical wisdom to examine not simply what they want God to change in a husband, but what He desires to transform in them. You will be challenged to trust God with your husband's journey, speak to the king in him, choose honor over criticism, fight the right enemy, practice forgiveness, respond with strength under control, and cultivate a marriage where both husband and wife can grow toward God.

This devotional is not about pretending marriage is easy or placing the responsibility for a husband's spiritual growth on his wife. His relationship with God belongs to him. Your responsibility is your own posture before God.

The Warrior Wife learns to pray without manipulating, encourage without controlling, honor without idolizing, and love without attempting to take the Holy Spirit's place.

Over 21 days, you will be invited to surrender your expectations, examine your heart, strengthen your prayer life, and rediscover what it means to fight from victory rather than for it.

You do not have to change your husband.

You can love him toward God.