You are not only somebody's descendant. You are becoming somebody's ancestor. Every family transfers something. Some families pass down property. Others pass down debt. Some transfer silence, fear, broken relationship patterns, financial confusion, family secrets, and wounds nobody every learned how to name. Become the Ancestor is the third and final book in Lucius Alston's Relationship, marriage, legacy trilogy. After would you marry you? Challended the individual and love needs a system taught couples how to design a household, this book asks the generational question: If your descendants inherited everything about you except your money, what would you be leaving them? Through the family legacy operating system, readers examine ten inheritances every family transfers, identity, faith, love, emotional health, knowledge, health, money, ownership, culture, and legacy.