You signed the papers, divided the assets, and told yourself the hard part was over — yet your ex still calls, texts, forwards articles, or appears at the door with 'one more thing to sort.' For those ending a long marriage in later life, the contact can feel endless: a financial question, a shared memory, a need for closure they cannot find. This book is a calm, practical guide to reclaiming your space without guilt or escalation. You will learn how to distinguish ordinary co-parenting or logistical contact from persistent intrusion, how to set firm boundaries that protect your emotional and financial life, and what to do when the contact crosses into harassment. Grounded in the realities of shared pensions, adult children, and decades of history, this book helps you stop managing your ex's feelings and start living your own life. Part of The Later-Life Divorce Library.